2024年10月27日 · I see this as less about control and more about safety. Most people find the idea that the world is unsafe terrifying- but it is really unsafe. When you experience it as being so deeply unsafe there are two routes of thinking you can go down - 'there's something wrong with the world' or 'there's something wrong with me'.

2023年4月19日 · Can you give an example how if things like "vulnerability, lack of control and being mediocre" are in your shadow, how Jungian depth psychology would work on integrating that and how those three examples could lead to growth and insight?

2010年12月22日 · I think when one is abused, the lack of control is one part that gets ingrained, and feeling out of control is frightening. (Or in my case scary as Hell). I find my need to control things around me increases as my stress level increases. When big things in life happen, that I have no control over, I over focus on the little things.

2024年11月30日 · Lack of or presence of one safe caregiver. Guilt shame powerlessness and lack of control. This is one you referenced and I can totally see that for myself. Also, when you have empathy or a moral compas of sorts then seeing others hurt …

2024年9月1日 · Because of my own background with JWs anger is a bad emotion and means you lack self-control. It is very difficult for me to get angry. But Pete Walker’s book talks about needing anger to “thought-stop” the inner critic and how use anger to combat fear and shame and to use it in concert with crying.

2023年11月22日 · The lack of control can be overwhelming, and it's completely understandable that it messes with you. But please remember, you are not alone in this. Many individuals in this community can understand and relate to what you're going through.

2024年6月20日 · So throughout my life I internalized that my lack of ability to work consistently (I can hold a job through extensive drug/alcohol abuse for about a year before I have to quit because I can't control my aggression) made me bad.

2024年12月3日 · I've been in refeed syndrome, liver failure, lost all my hair, and nearly died, all though lack of nutrition. You deserve food, nutrients and a life away from being consumed by calorie counting and denying yourself of the basic human things.

2024年7月3日 · All my illnesses are under control with medicines, This is not minimize the four years of health hell--one thing after another including unexpectedly finding out my coronary artery was 60-70% blocked, and the nine falls over the past year I've experienced. This has all taken a toll on me physically, emotionally, and mentally.

2024年3月12日 · Hearing you If this helps any, it might benefit you to ask the hospital for financial assistance or aid. Many hospitals, especially nonprofit ones (which most are) in the United States (I'm not sure where you are, and you don't have to say), will willingly provide options to you for payment plans, reduced bills, or bill forgiveness (where you don't have to pay them back at all, …